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The Gift of Self Care: Why It Matters & How to Treat Yourself (or Someone You Love)
Life is busy, isn’t it? Between work, home, family, and the endless to-do list, it’s all too easy to put ourselves at the very bottom of the pile. For mums especially, finding even ten minutes of “me time” can feel impossible. But here’s the truth: self care isn’t selfish. It’s essential.
That’s where a thoughtful self care hamper, self care box, or self care package can make all the difference. Whether you’re treating yourself, surprising a friend, or sending love to a new mum, these little bundles of comfort provide a gentle reminder to pause, rest, and recharge.
Let’s explore why self care matters, who needs it most, and the perfect items and hampers to help you (or someone special) feel nurtured.
Why Self Care is Important
Self care simply means taking intentional steps to look after your physical, emotional, and mental wellbeing. It might be running a warm bath, lighting a candle, or curling up with a good book — the small things that help you feel whole again.
And it really does matter. Around 1 in 4 people in the UK experience a mental health problem each year. For women and mums in particular, the pressures can be overwhelming — balancing childcare, work, relationships, and household responsibilities.
Postpartum recovery brings its own unique challenges, too. Studies show that 1 in 7 new mums experience postpartum depression, with many also battling exhaustion and anxiety. Gentle, consistent self care can play an important role in healing, boosting confidence, and finding calm amidst the chaos.
In short: when we take care of ourselves, we have more strength, energy, and love to give to others.
Who Benefits the Most from Some Self Care?
The beauty of self care is that it’s universal. Everyone benefits. But some groups especially need the reminder:
Busy mums who are constantly pouring into others and rarely into themselves.
Women in high-stress roles such as carers, teachers, and healthcare workers.
Friends going through difficult times — from grief to burnout to big life changes.
New mums navigating sleepless nights, postpartum recovery, and the emotional rollercoaster of motherhood.
If you recognise yourself or someone you love in these groups, a thoughtful self care present can be a gentle nudge to slow down and rest.
5 Must-Have Self Care Items
Sometimes, it’s the little luxuries that make the biggest difference. Here are five self care staples we love at Three Bears Emporium:
Whipped SoapsA swirl of creamy, cloud-like soap that makes everyday showers feel like a pampering ritual. Soft on skin, fun to use, and beautifully scented.
Bath SaltsPerfect for melting away stress and soothing tired muscles. A long soak with bath salts feels like a mini spa retreat at home.
Sheet Face MasksQuick, effective, and wonderfully relaxing. Just 15 minutes with a mask on gives skin (and mood) an instant lift.
Candles & Wax MeltsNothing says “me time” quite like a flickering flame or a softly scented room. From calming lavender to sweet vanilla, fragrances set the perfect self care mood.
Sleep SprayA spritz of soothing essential oils on your pillow can work wonders for restful sleep. Essential for mums who never quite get enough shut-eye.
5 Complete Self Care Hampers from Three Bears Emporium
While individual items are lovely, sometimes you need the whole package. At Three Bears Emporium, we’ve created beautiful self care hampers that take the guesswork out of gifting.
Here are five favourites:
Warm Hug in a Letterbox GiftA compact but cosy package designed to brighten someone’s day. With little treats like socks and pamper goodies, it feels like sending comfort through the post. Shop it here.
You’ve Got This LetterboxUplifting and motivational, this box is perfect for friends who need a little boost or mums adjusting to new routines. A lovely way to say, “I believe in you.” Browse here.
Head to Toe Spa BoxPacked with pampering treats, from bath bombs to beauty products, this box turns a simple evening at home into a full spa experience. See more here.
Rest & Relax Pamper Gift SetA soothing selection designed for unwinding at the end of a long day. Ideal as a birthday treat, thank you gift, or just because. Find it here.
Relax and Recharge Pamper BoxThoughtfully curated for women who need to reset and recharge. A wonderful gift for mums, sisters, or friends who deserve some TLC. Shop here.
Why a Self Care Hamper Makes the Perfect Gift
What makes a self care hamper so special is its thoughtfulness. Unlike flowers or chocolates, a self care package is a gift of time, comfort, and permission to slow down.
It works for so many occasions:
Birthdays
Thank-you gifts
Thinking-of-you gestures
Christmas surprises
Postpartum support for new mums
Most importantly, it shows someone they’re valued and deserving of care.
Final Thoughts
In a world that never stops, self care is the pause button we all need. Whether it’s running a bath, lighting a candle, or opening a beautifully curated self care box, these little rituals remind us to nurture ourselves.
So whether you’re treating yourself or surprising a loved one, explore our full collection of hampers and find the perfect self care presents today:
Pamper Gift Sets Collection
Letterbox Gifts Collection
Because everyone deserves a moment of calm, care, and comfort.
Don’t Ignore Self Care: Try a Spa Gift Set!
Did you know that around 25% of the population in the UK have a mental health issue? Anxiety and depression rank the highest among mental health illnesses, and almost one in five individuals have had suicidal thoughts.
Self-care has become a more prevalent topic of combating the negative effects of mental illnesses. But what exactly is self-care, and how can you start implementing it in your daily routine?
We have put together a complete guide on self-care tips and the benefits of our spa gift set. If you have an interest in improving your mental, emotional, and physical health, keep reading on for more information!
What Is Self-Care?
If you want to start the new year off with taking better care of yourself, improving your self-care routine is the way to go.
Self-care should not be mistaken for the word selfish. It is quite the opposite actually - taking care of yourself can help you live a healthier life and help others do the same. It is no surprise that the amount of searches for 'self-care' has rapidly increased by more than 50% since 2015.
The cause?
Anxiety and depression have become more prevalent across all societies. Self-care is one way to help combat mental, emotional, and physical health concerns. What are some examples of self-care tasks?
Healthy sleep schedules
Finding time for hobbies
Meditation
Eating healthy
Drinking more water
Exercise
Hygiene
As you can see - self-care tasks can be anything that helps you reduce stress and focus on your health. Some people find that sitting in nature, having a cup of tea or coffee, or reading a book are simple things that help their mental and emotional health. In return, you can find yourself feeling healthier as your stress, anxiety, and worries start dissipating.
Starting a Self-Care Routine
Starting a self-care routine is the first step you can take to live a healthier life. Where do you start?
First, begin by carving out a few minutes each day for yourself. You can start your morning with some yoga and a cup of tea. Or, maybe you prefer meeting up with friends for a fun hobby that also checks off your box to exercise more.
It could even be simple things like ending the night with writing in your journal and setting a more consistent bedtime schedule. Next, you can start implementing moments of self-care throughout the day.
If you notice your stress and anxiety increasing at work, take a few minutes to yourself. You can strike a power pose or listen to your favourite music playlist for a few minutes. Don't worry - they don't have to be lengthy, but it is always good to check in on your mental health.
As you start setting scheduled times for self-care, you will become more adept at recognizing when you need it the most. However, you should always set aside time each day and week that focuses on just yourself.
Skin Care Routine
Hygiene is one of the best self-care routines you can implement. Hygiene self-care tasks can include indulging in a bubble bath, taking a long shower, or using healthy skin care products.
Why are skin care products helpful in your self-care routine?
Not only can it make your skin look healthier, but it can also help you feel better about yourself and your health. Setting aside a skin care routine also gives you time alone, which is therapeutic in and of itself.
Sometimes, it is just the structured routine of taking care of your skin either once or twice daily that helps people unwind and recharge. You can also listen to relaxing music or take ten minutes for contemplating in silence.
Just like sleep, a skin care routine can do wonders for your health. You will help reduce wrinkles, acne scars, and fine lines. Ready to get started?
Finding the Best Skin Care Routine
The best skin care routine starts with setting aside a few minutes each day. Many people prefer either first thing in the morning or right before bed. You can even start with both!
Once you have some time to yourself, you need the best skin care products to see lasting and glowing results. Research the company and products beforehand.
Your skin absorbs products like a sponge, and you want to ensure that what you use is only the best. Toners and clay masks are two simple ways to begin a healthy skin care routine. Our products are environmentally friendly and made from ingredients that amplify your health.
You can rest easy knowing you aren't putting more harsh chemicals onto your skin. Once you have begun a simple skin care routine, you can move to a complete spa pamper set.
Spa pamper gifts can target anxiety, relaxation, and stress relief. You can pick packages solely focused on skin care, or you can branch out to other hygiene products. Some standard products in a spa gift set include:
Facial masks
Bath bombs
Bath salts
Shower steamers
Soap
Shampoo
Most products offer excellent aromatherapy benefits while making your skin feel, look, and appear more youthful.
Start a Self-Care Routine Today
Self-care is something that most people could do a little bit better. In a day and age where there never seems to be enough time in the day, it has become more important to take a few minutes to yourself.
If you aren't sure where to start or are looking for a thoughtful gift for a loved one, check out our website or contact us for more information. Let us help you find the perfect self-care routine.